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Brian Robert Canham

15/4/2012

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Nine years ago today, my dad Brian passed away after a very short illness. I miss him all the time, and often think of things I'd like to tell him (well actually I do still tell him) about all the things that Mr F and my girls have done, things that would have made him proud, and sometimes just things that would've made him laugh. As a nurse, I've spent many long hours with dying patients, and I never realised what an honour it can be to spend those last few hours with someone until I did that for my own dad - I felt both very proud and very privileged to have been able to nurse him at the end. Unfortunately it was a bloody horrid couple of days when my dad passed away, because Mr F's dad passed away the day before. I know - bloody awful.com. Oh dear, this all sounds very bleak, and I don't want it to sound like that all - yes of course I miss him - the whole family misses him - but he's always in our thoughts, and we often laugh about things he would say to us, and we quote what we call "Brian-isms" - you know, the funny things that he would do and say to us - so we remember him with laughter, not with sadness. Anyhooos, when I was nursing my dad, I'd read him the daily newspaper and given him a shave, and my sisters and my mum and me played lots of his old records for him, and a couple of his favourites were Louis Armstrong and Jim Reeves.  I can't bring myself to play Jim on my blog, but here is Louis at his best - listen and enjoy.

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Janette link
15/4/2012 02:16:01 pm

Nicola,
I can totally empathise with you hearing your story, as my sisters, brother and I nursed my Dad at his home during his last weeks of suffering from cancer 3 years ago now, although we are not medically trained like yourself, we had wonderful support from the macmillan nurses, I still consider that three weeks to be the most traumatic of my life though, and hope never to experience it ever again.
Jim Reeves was also one of my Dads favourites....

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Julie
16/4/2012 02:09:05 pm

Nicola,
Reading your post about the anniversary of your Dad's passing made me cry but also made me feel comforted at the same time. You clearly loved your Dad and he was lucky to have you nurse him and his family by his side. My two sisters and I are nursing, (again not medically) our Mother who is terminally ill with cancer. I totally related to your comments as although we are exhausted, physically and emotionally, our time together is special and an experience I will cherish.
Have a good holiday and love the new Christmas fabric too.

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